Showing Up
How Men Can Become Effective Allies
Showing Up is a revolutionary step-by-step guide—by and for men—to ending toxic masculinity and leveraging men to enact heart-based leadership, increase diversity, bolster the bottom line, and create a culture so everyone in the workplace wins.
In Showing Up, you’ll discover the DIY method of heart-based leadership Ray has used with such companies as Verizon, Bloomberg, Moody’s, Intel, Toyota, Hearst, and more—a male-modeled, real-solutions approach by and for men to increase diversity, bolster the bottom line, and create a culture so everyone in the workplace wins.
With stories that illuminate common missteps, followed by key learning sections, and deep-dive training exercises to support the development of allyship, Showing Up turns good intentions into specific actions you can implement immediately.
A Step-by-Step Guide to Healthy, Inclusive Masculinity and Leadership.
Showing Up is a “how-to” book for men in organizations seeking to be better allies and leaders. The book also gives guidance to HR, Diversity & Inclusion Professionals on how to engage their men in diversity efforts.
Healthy Masculinity
Embrace healthy masculinity as a cornerstone of inclusionary leadership.
Behavior Modifications
Adopt behavior modifications to become an inclusive leader and ally for underrepresented groups.
Identify Bad Habits
Identify unhealthy masculine behaviors in the workplace—like ‘mansplaining’, ‘manterrupting’, and ‘manopolizing’.
Leverage Power
Leverage power and position to elevate underrepresented groups and communities.